[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.public08.cz\/deti-jsou-pod-neustalym-tlakem\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.public08.cz\/deti-jsou-pod-neustalym-tlakem\/","headline":"D\u011bti jsou pod neust\u00e1l\u00fdm tlakem","name":"D\u011bti jsou pod neust\u00e1l\u00fdm tlakem","description":"B\u00fdt rodi\u010dem nen\u00ed v\u016fbec snadn\u00e9. \u017d\u00e1d\u00e1 si to velkou trp\u011blivost, sna\u017een\u00ed, vytrvalost, energii a mno\u017estv\u00ed sil k dosa\u017een\u00ed toho, aby va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b bylo \u0159\u00e1dn\u011b vychovan\u00e9 a p\u0159ipraven\u00e9 vstoupit do \u017eivota s t\u00edm, co jste ho nau\u010dili. P\u0159esto v\u0161ak nejste jedin\u00ed, kdo to nem\u00e1 absolutn\u011b lehk\u00e9. I d\u011bti se mus\u00ed potkat s t\u00edm, \u017ee je jejich &hellip; <p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.public08.cz\/deti-jsou-pod-neustalym-tlakem\/\" class=\"more-link\">Pokra\u010dovat ve \u010dten\u00ed<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> \"D\u011bti jsou pod neust\u00e1l\u00fdm tlakem\"<\/span><\/a><\/p>","datePublished":"2025-02-27","dateModified":"2023-04-29","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.public08.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"public08.cz\n","url":"https:\/\/www.public08.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4e6a74466e4227c12d5306875d08720cdfce3572213740db6f4a2e5e46e710ff?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4e6a74466e4227c12d5306875d08720cdfce3572213740db6f4a2e5e46e710ff?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"public08.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.public08.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a336813_w2033_t1550080347.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.public08.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a336813_w2033_t1550080347.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.public08.cz\/deti-jsou-pod-neustalym-tlakem\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":601,"articleBody":"B\u00fdt rodi\u010dem nen\u00ed v\u016fbec snadn\u00e9. \u017d\u00e1d\u00e1 si to velkou trp\u011blivost, sna\u017een\u00ed, vytrvalost, energii a mno\u017estv\u00ed sil k dosa\u017een\u00ed toho, aby va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b bylo \u0159\u00e1dn\u011b vychovan\u00e9 a p\u0159ipraven\u00e9 vstoupit do \u017eivota s t\u00edm, co jste ho nau\u010dili.P\u0159esto v\u0161ak nejste jedin\u00ed, kdo to nem\u00e1 absolutn\u011b lehk\u00e9. I d\u011bti se mus\u00ed potkat s t\u00edm, \u017ee je jejich d\u011btstv\u00ed n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 a bohu\u017eel \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l v\u00edce \u2013 pod v\u011bt\u0161\u00edm nap\u011bt\u00edm.\tPro\u010d na va\u0161e d\u011bti ve v\u0161em tla\u010d\u00edte?Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b, \u017ee vy jako dosp\u011bl\u00ed, u\u017e dob\u0159e v\u00edte, \u017ee je pot\u0159eba m\u00edt n\u011bjak\u00fd \u0159\u00e1d a rytmus, d\u00edky kter\u00e9mu stihnete v\u00edce v\u011bc\u00ed najednou a v pr\u016fb\u011bhu dne nebudete m\u00edt \u010das \u2013 zah\u00e1let se zbyte\u010dnostmi. D\u011bti maj\u00ed ov\u0161em jin\u00fd n\u00e1zor na to, jak\u00e9 tempo jsou schopn\u00e9 zvl\u00e1dat a vn\u00edmat v\u0161echno tak, aby se na to dok\u00e1zaly i pat\u0159i\u010dn\u011b soust\u0159edit.Vyv\u00edjet na nich tlak jenom z toho d\u016fvodu, \u017ee sp\u011bch\u00e1te, nen\u00ed ani v\u00fdchovn\u00e9 a ani p\u0159\u00ednosn\u00e9. A to pro \u017e\u00e1dnou stranu! V okam\u017eiku, jak d\u00edt\u011b za\u010dne poci\u0165ovat nap\u011bt\u00ed, kter\u00e9 na n\u011bho vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1te, propadne pocitu m\u00e9n\u011bcennosti, neschopnosti a pocitu beznad\u011bj\u00ed. Ten m\u00e1 pak za n\u00e1sledek to, \u017ee se k n\u011bmu p\u0159idaj\u00ed stavy \u00fazkosti a reakce, jakou je pl\u00e1\u010d. A vy pak ze zoufalstv\u00ed, \u017ee va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b nen\u00ed tak zru\u010dn\u00e9, jak byste si p\u0159edstavovali, zatla\u010d\u00edte ho je\u0161t\u011b v\u00edce do kouta a vyv\u00edj\u00edte na n\u011bho vztek a k\u0159ik.A to je n\u011bco, co se norm\u00e1ln\u00edmu v\u00fdvoji u d\u00edt\u011bte zcela vymyk\u00e1. P\u0159ece nechcete, aby na n\u011bm z\u016fstaly n\u011bjak\u00e9 n\u00e1sledky toho, \u017ee se na n\u011bm cel\u00e9 jeho d\u011btstv\u00ed tla\u010dilo ve v\u0161em, co jste po n\u011bm po\u017eadovali.\tNala\u010fte se na jeho tempo \u017eivotaI kdy\u017e sp\u011bch\u00e1te a pot\u0159ebujete, aby va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b bylo rychle oble\u010den\u00e9 a obut\u00e9 nebo p\u0159idalo do kroku v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee se dle v\u00e1s loud\u00e1, ned\u00e1vejte mu poc\u00edtit to, \u017ee je v\u00e1m na obt\u00ed\u017e jeho pomalej\u0161\u00ed tempo.Stejn\u011b tak to plat\u00ed v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, kdy\u017e ho pova\u017eujete za ne\u0161ikovn\u00e9ho, proto\u017ee na rozd\u00edl od ostatn\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed, je\u0161t\u011b neum\u00ed tak dob\u0159e mluvit, chodit, \u010d\u00edst, ps\u00e1t, recitovat b\u00e1sni\u010dky nebo jednodu\u0161e p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let tak, jak se to slu\u0161\u00ed na jeho v\u011bk.Ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b je jin\u00e9 a nen\u00ed od v\u00e1s f\u00e9r, \u017ee to va\u0161e soud\u00edte d\u00edky tomu, co um\u00ed a zvl\u00e1daj\u00ed ostatn\u00ed, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1m pochopiteln\u011b m\u016f\u017eou b\u00fdt ukraden\u00e9. I d\u00edky nim toti\u017e rodi\u010de na sv\u00e9 ratolesti vyv\u00edj\u00ed n\u00e1tlak v podob\u011b toho, co u\u017e mus\u00ed um\u011bt zvl\u00e1dat, a to za ka\u017edou cenu! A ten je p\u0159itom naprosto zbyte\u010dn\u00fd, proto\u017ee se s n\u00edm stejn\u011b dop\u0159edu neposunete, ale naopak vyvol\u00e1te ve va\u0161em d\u00edt\u011bti pocity, kter\u00e9 nejsou na m\u00edst\u011b.Jist\u011b jsou va\u0161e d\u011bti nesm\u00edrn\u011b \u0161ikovn\u00e9 a nadan\u00e9. A to, \u017ee se jejich zru\u010dnosti li\u0161\u00ed od jin\u00fdch je\u0161t\u011b neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee na nich mus\u00edte ve v\u0161em tla\u010dit.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4\/5 - (8 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"D\u011bti jsou pod neust\u00e1l\u00fdm tlakem","item":"https:\/\/www.public08.cz\/deti-jsou-pod-neustalym-tlakem\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]